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Predictions for 2009
I may skip today’s Monday Morning Brief, I had more fun creating predictions. Tried not to get too carried away but I couldn’t help myself.
Better Church Attendance - As fear of recession grows and Americans have less disposable income, church attendance, participation, giving (among other things) will rise. Partially will be because many will have fewer distractions that they can afford and partially also because many will need the church community and their belief in God to move forward.
McCain will produce, write and star in a documentary called, “Inopportune Actuality: I told you so about nuclear Iran” and will achieve a Gore-like status. He will back on The Daily Show where we will hear Jon kidding with John about what happened in 2008. (Stewart has already joked about how much cooler McCain is after the election. Just like that? Wow.)
U2 will release another incredible album. It won’t earn the same number of Grammy’s as HTDAB because it’s being released too early in the year. It’s ok – it will still be great.
Jessica Simpson will attempt her own Brittany-style comeback but won’t succeed.
Lost will be spectacular.
24 won’t.
Movie theaters will actually lower ticket prices to gain back their departing audience. I will have only seen blockbusters like Wolverine, Transformers 2 and whatever 2009’s version of There Will Be Blood and other fantastic character performances.
It won’t matter because everyone will be at home listening to U2.
Shane Claiborne will give away more, inspire more, and … cut his hair and donate it to “Locks of Love”.
Joel Osteen will make more, “inspire” more and … dye his hair blonde, grow it out and release a Best Life Now calendar, Strength of Samson edition. In a desperate attempt to stay on television, this will force Dr. Phil to get a toupee.
Max Lucado will release 3 new books by the time you finish reading this.
Tim LaHaye will begin a writing project focused on a creation called Right Before. It will be a seven book collection, one for each day and the seventh will be called Rest and the pages will literally be blank.
The Titans will beat the Eagles in the Super Bowl. But take heart, the half-time show with Springsteen will be memorable.
Hockey will gain 3 more fans this year. I just found out that Eric Lindross is no longer a Flyer. Well, as long as Gretzky and Lemieux are still playing … Seriously, until this sport gets back on television, they will gain so few fans a year and non-hockey, but general sports fans will continue to have a limited knowledge of this sport. Everyone, including myself, says that hockey is great live but does not translate on television. While that is true of the game play, the storylines must be carried on television too. And it can’t all be that Sidney Cosby kid (I know, I know). Credit ESPN for always trying to help this dying sport but they need to get back on real television (by real, I don’t mean the “Versus” channel, KJ). I actually used to watch hockey before they cancelled the season. It was on ESPN then.
The Yankees will win the World Series. We’ve been saying that we needed pitching …
A Male, Middle-aged, Modernist’s Lament
One of our seminary assignments for Hebrew Poetry and Contemporary Ministry was to write a psalm. I chose to write one of lament. I meant to post this earlier and must have forgotten. Found it in my draft folder.
(For those that do not know me, this lament is not autobiographical. Mine would be boring.)
A Male, Middle-aged, Modernist’s Lament
My ex-wife mocks me before her support group as they sit close on my Italian leather,
While they laugh at me as they sip their wine.
My children call me by my first name
While my mother curses my birth,
My church has edited me off its membership list
While my pastor does not even know my name.
My heart lives in fear of being laid off.
While my soul is already in recession.
My head is balding, my waist increasing, my savings depleted, my home lost
While my pride is destroyed.
My soul aches for belonging
While I only find new ways to be abandoned.
My world has lost its way!
I have lost my way!
There is no truth, no justice, no compassion, no peace and no love.
It would have been better to have been aborted than to have entered this reality.
But praise the Lord for His faithfulness
For He remembers the broken-hearted.
Mocked by society but encouraged by God.
Disrespected by my own blood, but delivered by the Redeemer.
Forgotten by pastors and parents, but my name is tattooed on the arm of my Lord.
Laid off by employers, but promoted by the Almighty.
Embarrassed by my body but God has healed my soul.
Praise the God of second chances.
Praise the Father for not neglecting His children.
Praise the One who never edits, deletes, or forgets His worshippers.
Praise the Provider for in the midst of depression, He gives confidence.
Praise the Lord for hearing my cries and for His comfort.
But praise the Lord for His faithfulness
For He remembers the aching soul.
Reflecting on My Music Listening and Buying
I don’t blog enough about music but I do love it. Well, that’s kind of a dumb statement because pretty much everyone loves music. But I do love my music, I love new music, I love hating bad music (although I’m not that big of snob. I don’t like boy bands because they suck, not because they’re popular. Radiohead is popular but they’re amazing, therefore I like them. See?).
Years ago, a church family gave me an ipod for Christmas. Not only did that move them up on my prayer list, but it really helped my music listening experience. Prior to that, I had various CD cases that I would drag around with me. The Ipod of course changed that.
Oddly enough, I still buy most of my music on CD. I bought the new Coldplay Viva La Vida album on cd, imported on itunes, threw it on the ipod, and flipped through the liner notes, etc. I like imagining certain bands sitting together discussing what the artwork should look like and why. What should be contained inside the liner notes and on days when I have too much time, I compare things like the people they thanked in this album versus the last. I find it interesting. In addition, I look at a couple websites, read magazines (I subscribe to Rolling Stone and Paste). Speaking of Coldplay and Rollling Stone, I liked Chris Martin’s interview, “The Jesus of the Uncool” in Rolling Stone. And as the cd collects dust on my shelf, I enjoy listening and discussing certain albums with others.
Radiohead was interesting because they first made In Rainbows available by download for any donation on their website. I gave $5 because I’m a big spender. (I’m serious, if you check out the sites, I think that was the highest donation they took in but it was what I was willing to spend and I loved the idea.) Then, when the CD was released months later, I bought it too. I like looking at my CD’s, DVD’s, and books on my shelves (and I wonder how long it will take me to get Kindle or the Sony Reader. If I traveled weekly, I’d probably consider it). I like the tangibility of certain things. You can check out a brief Paste article regarding Radiohead’s downloads and sales numbers with In Rainbows here.
Anyway, I am interested what will happen in the music industry. I read this interesting article in the NY Times, “Songs From the Heart of a Marketing Plan“. Though it’s more about how new artists need to attach their music to products and commercials (like Yael Naim’s “New Soul” promoting the MacBook Air), it speaks to the changes in the music industry.
For those interested in great music and love independent music, here’s someone you should know - Andy Zipf. He’s a real artist, he’s refused to sell out, and he actually loves to travel and play shows for people. In some ways, he’s already doing the future of music thing. For instance, his music is only available by digital download. He will be playing our first youth group of 2009 with a concert and conversation. (Let me know if you’re interested, I’d be happy to get you directions). Check out his music here.Reflecting on 2008
Perhaps I am among the minority who loved 2008. At times I feel like the happiest guy in the room but I’m not sure if that’s because I don’t complain as much as some others, or if I am such a pessimist that I’m just happy to be alive and that any good thing is a great thing to me or that I am hardwired as a joyful person (yep, a joyful pessimist. My mom tells me that I used to wake up singing in the crib. Those infant bible stories of Paul and Silas singing in the jail cell must have really spoken to me).
I extend my sympathies to those who had a difficult 2008, however, I will always look back with fond memories of 2008. It sounds dramatic but it was an incredible cross point in my life. For me and my family, many prayers were answered. We saw the Lord work in beautiful ways. From our adoption to saying goodbye to our dear grandmother to the coming of our new senior pastor to many other moments.
(Though I do not believe that you can categorize your life, these types of lists tend to work better if you do). Highlights and Memorably Moments for us a Family – Susan and I adopting Nathan. We adopted from FL and after he was released from the hospital to our custody, Susan and him spent a couple days at her parents while I flew back to NJ and spent the next week at Babies R’ Us and various baby outlets and sections. They made it back right before Mother’s Day and I was scheduled to preach that Sunday. Happy to say all went well and it was a beautiful day as so many of my family and extended family were there. My grandmother was just released from the hospital and we celebrated at her house. I could go on and on but again, it was a beautiful day. Then there was first Father’s Day, first portraits, Adoption Day!, First day he slept through the night, First Christmas …
For years and years I, along with my family members, agonized over the day that our grandmother, “Teta”, would no longer be with us. After her health declined to such a terrible extent and being in the hospital more days than not, she went home to be with her Savior on June 6th. While I take heart in the fact that she no longer suffers, we all miss her. I’m grateful for our memories, the impact that she had on our lives, her compassionate love she gave us and for the work of God in her life. Though it was a great honor for me to share a eulogy at her service, I felt privileged to be on of our grandchildren.
Highlights of the Youth Ministry Year –
- Our Winter Retreat was a hit. The theme was “Are We There Yet?” and it was a discussion on the movie “Saved!”. Dealing with the topics of hypocrisy and love, we had some solid conversation on pet peeves within the church, the challenges we face as a community and as individuals and other worthy topics. We also had a great time with each other. While there were glitches and criticisms, it was probably the best retreat that I’ve been part of.
- “Senior Sneak” and the Graduating Class of ’08. Hmmm, the class of ’08. Some were thorn in my fleshand some were God-given allies for a youth pastor. In the end, they were all my friends. There’s been an on-going tradition to take the graduating seniors on a secret trip. We took them to see Seinfeld in Connecticut and drove back down and stayed at a church member’s house at the Jersey shore. The next day, we spent some time at the beach, reflecting on life, God, us and the future. We drove to Philly and an enjoyed a great meal at a nice restaurant and had many laughs and memories. They were a big class, a very involved one and they are missed.
- Going with Evan to New Orleans – I’ve blogged about our time and New Orleans here, here and here. Some of our students have been really altered by this trip and it has sustained my belief in the virtues of short-term mission trips.
“Personal Enrichment” Highlights of the Year – The Q Conference, Emergent Mid-Atlantic withPeteRollins, Reclaiming Paul Conf., John Franke’s Installation at Biblical with (McLaren, McKnight, Yoder and Keel), Seeing Tom Wright with the fellows, NYWC in Pittsburgh with Tim and seminary friends … and all the books and podcasts, all the conversations, the blogs, the music, the movies, and whatever else! A lot of incredible knowledge passed through my brain this year. Other great moments include – enjoyed making some new friends this year, deepening friendships with others, and thanks to Facebook, reconnecting with old-school friends. Loving my church, Fusion Student Ministry, and Biblical Seminary experience (Cohort 10 – best ever!).
Two big answers to prayer have been the hiring of new senior pastor, Sam and our new Jr. High Pastor, Tim. The search for a new senior pastor was tricky because one of the reasons I came to this church was because of our previous one. He was a good man, great pastor, and I enjoyed working for him for the duration that I did. It was sad to him go but I was encouraged by the new search committee that had been put together. They were so sharp and had a great deal of collective wisdom, I was thrilled to see the Lord working through them. Within a year they found Sam and his wonderful family. So far so good but I anticipate myself saying that for a long while.
Then there was Tim who started the same time as our new sr. pastor. As many youth pastors, he had a rough first church experience which the pragmatist in me loves because it led him here. I kid, I kid, it was a tough experience for him, but our students and church are reaping the benefits of the lessons he learned and the person he is. Aside from needing help in the children’s ministry department, our church is running out of staff-related excuses to run this place. I’m grateful to be serving in a church like this.
Historically, we witnessed a black president being voted in, the Giants beating the undefeated Patriots in an incredible Super Bowl, the Dark Knight, the Phillies finally winning and other incredible things.
A lot more to say, but 2008 was a good year - Happy New Year friends.
My Christmas Eve Reflection
Initially I planned on posting the audio but Christmas is a tricky time and we give our tech team the night off so here’s something close to what I said. In real time, it went about 20 minutes.
The bullet points are:
Read from Luke 2
made fun of terrible looking nativity scene.
the nativity is not the official symbol of Christmas.
poked fun at our nativity scene that we had in front of the sanctuary,
quoted Bono, Brennan Manning, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Tom Turner
All to say that Christmas cannot be ruined by commercialization, seasons greetings, ugly nativities, stolen nativities, santa, reindeer or anything else. It means to much to by any of these things.
I post it because it actually went pretty well. Feel free to read the rest.
Monday Morning Brief - Last One of 2008.
Highlights of the Week: First family Christmas! We loved taking Nathan to see Santa, enjoyed Christmas-shopping for him, and loved taking him to our church’s family Christmas Eve service. Another highlight for me was preaching at the 10PM Christmas Eve service. Seemed to go well and was grateful that my sr. pastor asked me to do it.
Disappointment of the Week: Not really sure who gave my the fruitcake. I think it was re-gifted from last year. If I ever find out, they’re off the prayer list. (Didn’t really happen; it’s been a real good week).
Listening to: Christmas music. This was the first year that I can remember that I didn’t get tired of listening to it. Maybe I’m getting old but I think it’s also due to better playlists, no radio, and Sufjan releasing a 5 cd set 2 years ago.
Just Watched: No Country For Old Men. I’m a year late and I need to watch it again. Really liked it though it was more violent than I was expecting. Great acting and there are too many subtle moments that I need to see again.
Reading: Been a crazy week so same as last week but I am enjoying Metavista.
Looking Forward to: 2009 and Joe & Denise’s new baby. (Praying for you.)
Procrastinating On: Making resolutions and making best of 2008 lists.
Monday Morning Brief - 12.22.08 - the second last one ever … in 2008.
Highlights of the Week: Finishing school felt pretty good. Got an A-. Our Sr. High night to find the meaning of Christmas was a great night. Still hearing a lot of good things from that night. Enjoyed our time at our young adult Christmas party. Templeton Foundation night was cool, feel free to join us if you’re ever free. It was special for Susan and I to do some Christmas shopping for our child, Nathan, we’ve only ever bought for others so this was fun.
Disappointment of the Week: … I’ve been thinking, and so far nothing comes to mind … and I am a miserable person so this should come easy. So far all I got is that we missed the Charlie Brown Christmas Special (which I believe I have on DVD - problem solved).
Listening to: all things Christmas – Harry Connick Jr.’s new one, received Sixpence’s Christmas as a gift, Sufjan still, since it’s 5 albums, and one that I recommend to you that you can grab for free from Noisetrade, “Sojourn – Advent Songs”.
Reading: Just started Metavista: Bible, Church and Mission in an Age of Imagination (Faith in an Emerging Culture Series) by Colin Greene and Martin Robinson. Looking forward to blogging about it soon.
Moment of Advent: I’ve been pretty faithful with my devotions and am still processing last week’s sermon from my sr. pastor on the joy of Christmas. I wrote on Todd’s post that some of us get more excited and more emotional for the 4th of July than we do for Christmas. The message of Christmas is joy to the world! I’ll stop there but …
Looking Forward to: I was asked to preach the meditation at our 10PM Christmas Eve service. No place I’d rather be on my birthday and hope to bring some of these Advent thoughts to some kind of conclusion that night. May the Lord give me the words and bless those who listen and those who don’t.
Reflecting on the Templeton Foundation Book Forum with “Beyond Revenge” by Michael McCullough
It’s important to me to enjoy arguments from other perspectives. For one, it allows me to dialogue withothers, two, it helps me maintain some possibility of open-mindedness and three, it sharpens my thinking.
Please do not presume that I understand or can understand McCullough’s points from an hour’s worth of discussion on a Tuesday night. Further, I have not read Beyond Revenge and this post is not in any way a rebuttal to McCullough’s book but this more of an exercise in responding to what I gained from the night.
As mentioned in the previous post, I really enjoyed McCullough’s dialogue but throughout the evening I couldn’t help but think what he was referring to the effects of human evolution is what my Christian perspective refers to it as part of our sinful, human nature (or to borrow other Biblical language, “the flesh”).
I am assuming from the subtitle that “revenge” has evolved in human nature. This is an odd thing for me to understand and while I am happy in admitting my shortcoming in comprehending this, revenge seems to be a very instinctual and obvious response to wrong doing. I’d like to argue that if one can plot against another, it would be just as easy to exact revenge (or retaliate by plotting against if the idea is to avoid the concept or word “revenge”. And what was it before it evolved into “revenge”).
The Christian tradition seems to be the likely explanation for revenge. “The Fall”, serves as the moment that we as humanity chose our own ways. In my economy of thought, selfishness should come quite easy to us; at least it comes naturally to me. I couldn’t help but feel that had I changed the wording of McCullough’s words, I could have made this a case for Christianity.
And again, I remind you, I have not read the book, nor am I arguing against it but instead responding to what I heard that night at the forum. This is purely amateur and remember, it’s a blog post. Now, I believe the book is more interested in arguing for the evolution of forgiveness. Certainly that is a more appealing concept and forgiveness has to sell more books than revenge (unless we’re marketing to failed republican presidential candidates, ex-girlfriends and the like).
Arguing for an evolving forgiveness seems like a better case and I think I like the end result. Imagine a world where forgiveness trumps acts of revenge. Will this not lead to world peace? Now world peace may not solve all of humanity’s problems but it sure takes care of a bunch of them. From images like the lion laying down with the lamb to movies that warn us from our self-caused Armageddon, we have this dream that eventually we can resolve our differences and exist in peace. It’s actually a really great dream and I share it. {need something here}
First, let’s assume that macro-evolution is true and that we have descended from the caveman (and prior to that, the primate) Even with the coming of society, it seems that we should have less violence today. (I know, I know, evolution is a slow process). Second, what will forgiveness evolve into in the future aside from less violence and more reconciliation among a greater number of people? Will we as a humanity occupy ourselves with more important matters like caring for the poor, sick, depressed, and marginalized? Will we not only forgive but love the offender? Will we turn the other cheek, go the extra mile, and feed our enemies? Is it evolution we need? Because I’d like to make the case that even if Christianity is a made-up religion, it offers a great vision for forgiveness and seems to have done more in 2000 years than the millions of evolution.
Now what if Christianity is not a made up religion? What if there is a divine God behind it? Does this mean then that forgiveness is super-natural or some kind of indication of the supernatural? Hmmm. Are those outside the Christian faith capable of this super-natural forgiveness? Certainly. In fact, over the years, some of the best people I’ve met are professing atheists/agonistics. In fact, over the years some of the best people I’ve met were former professing atheists/agnostics. I believe over the years that many good and moral atheists have advanced the Kingdom of God (and that many of them are pre-Christians). I believe over the years that many wrong-hearted, professing Christians have impaired the cause of Christ (and many times it’s been me).
If there is a God of love, it would seem that He is more interested in calling all people to peace with Himself and with each other. My theology is not universal. I believe very strongly in the personal freedom of the soul meaning God has allowed us to choose who/what we worship. But if the goal of life is to live in peace and harmony with each other, I have to ask, why wait for evolution to continue its course, why not become a Christian?
Our Sr. High Youth Group go to the Mall to find the Meaning of Christmas
As a youth group, each year we do a Christmas party in our beloved youth room affectionately called The Fireside Room (it has a fireplace and it it’s a room and since I’m not extreme youth pastor, I have no plans to rename to rename it to the “Inferno Room” or “House Ablaze” … anyway). In previous years, we had the coffee bar going, the carols, I would give a brief Christmas reflection, we may tell a story, and then of course, the White Elephant exchange. Well I Well, I love Silent Night, and Rudolph and I pretty much like all the Christmas traditions (sacred and secular) including the White Elephant thing as much as the next guy but it was time to do something different.
I tried to volunteer our group to throw a Christmas party at either a children’s hospital or an assisted living/nursing home. No one wanted us. We may have a terrible reputation that I am unaware of or it points to groups and individuals focus on this time of year more than other times.
In keeping with our “you can’t ruin Christmas theme”, I had asked them to bring $5 Starbucks money and our evening began at a outdoor nativity at a nearby Catholic church. Reminding them of the infamous Talladega Nights scene where Ricky Bobby prays to baby Jesus, I shared with our students that this was how we usually picture Jesus, laying asleep in the manger. The meaning of Christmas is so much bigger and everywhere.
After breaking up into our small groups, their assignment was to find moments of Christmas and to find ways how they could be bring a moment of its meaning to others in the mall. The rules were simple, they could not spend any of the money on themselves or on anyone on their Christmas list. We were here for to experience God and the “other”.
It was great; two groups got together and bought several coats and donated them to a coat drive. Some even gave their own coats. One girl tried to give her money to one who sold trinkets and cheap jewelry from one of those little stands that are outside bigger retailers. The lady gave her 5 sets of earrings that her group got wrapped by those who were raising money for cancer research and then gave the 5 gift wrappers the earrings they just wrapped. They were several other stories but it was evident from the stories like that, they were catching the point.
The meaning of Christmas is captured in many places including at the mall watching families and people shopping for others. Not everyone is giving out of formality, some will actually be a blessing. Some are making gifts that will do a similar thing. Many are donating their time, their coats, their resources. It’s my opinion that we tend to look to much to the negative and annoying aspects of the holiday and overlook moments like these. Even in the den of commercialization and materialism, we can remember the love of Christ. No one may have gotten saved (or saved again) but all of us were encouraged, strangers were blessed and I believe God was glorified more by this than another party in our beloved Fireside Room.
After we exchanged our stories, I told them the legend-story of the candy cane. You probably heard it or something like it. A candy maker some 300 years ago gave out these shepherd-shaped sugar sticks to children who behaved during the church Christmas concert that had a Jesus the Great Shepherd theme. Later the story evolved to the shape is a “J” theme for the baby Jesus and the red stripe was symbolic of his blood. Yes, even candy can be redeemed and for those who are searching and celebrating Christmas, nothing can ruin its meaning.
Monday Morning Brief
Highlight of the Week: Christmas tree shopping with the family. Finishing this semester of school. CC Sabathia, AJ Burnett starting with a healthy Wang, healthy Hughes, Joba, Rivera and without Scott Brochius, Yankee pitching is going to look alright.
Disappointment of the Week: This picture. If I had more time, I’d write a letter of complaint. The Jonas Brothers should never be that close to Bob Dylan. If this was display done by a blind man or a poorly programmed droid then I would understand. But this looks to be the work of someone who really does not know music. This is a serious argument to only buy music online (not to mention the high prices at this particular retailer) or at an independent music store. May our eyes be spared from a time of seeing such an atrocity ever again.
Looking Forward to: tomorrow night’s Templeton Foundation’s Book Forum Beyond Revenge.
Reading: Metavista: Bible, Church and Mission in an Age of Imagination
Listening to: Podcasts and Sufjan Christmas.
Need to: Figure out mission trip stuff, winter retreat stuff, some Christmas shopping, …
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- A Community Called Atonement by Scot McKnight
- Inspiration and Incarnation by Peter Enns
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Culture Making: Recovering our Creative Calling by Andy Crouch
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Metavista: Bible, Church, and Mission in an Age of Imagination by Colin Greene and Martin Robinson
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- Old Testament Parallels by Victor Matthews & Don Benjamin
- Exploring the Old Testament by Gordon McConville
- The Historical Books by Richard D. Nelson
- Organic Community by Joe Myers
- The New Christians by Tony Jones
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